Things you should do before or after any age at any time, gay or straight, single, married, divorced or widowed. For anyone ever at any point in time while there is oxygen in your lungs and your heart is still beating:

Live your life. Be free. Take deep breaths. Forget the bitches. Stop giving a damn about what anyone else in the world has to say or conclude about you. Be thankful, grateful, and joyful for every tiny detail of your life and where you are at. Marry or don’t. Go dancing with your friends. Fall in love. Indulge in things that make you happy and don’t feel guilty about it Be slow to speak and quick to listen. Always seek new perspectives. No matter if you agree with them or not. Keep your mind and heat open. Love people without giving yourself time to decide if they are worthy of it or not. Stop validating your marriage or your singleness with silly blogs like this and just keep living. Remember we are all on the same team and none of us make it out alive. Soo just make your own damn list and live it.


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